Skip to main content
AFS Financial Group

Love, Marriage & Money: The Second (or Third) Time Around

Phil’s Tax Hacks · November 20, 2025

Here’s some of what we discuss in this episode:

💍 Combining Lives & Assets: unique financial challenges in later marriages

💵 Separate Yet Secure: how to plan for retirement with independent savings

📊 Money Management: different approaches to handling finances together

🏛️ Legacy Planning: using trusts to protect family wealth

❤️ Emotional Dynamics: maintaining trust and communication about money

Today’s Hack

Getting married in your 50s often means you’re combining lives but not necessarily combining finances. How do you build a retirement plan together when you’ve both already built your own? In this episode, Phil answers a listener’s question about navigating financial and emotional security in later-life marriages. Financial independence and emotional connection aren’t opposites, you can keep your accounts separate, but your retirement plan should still be built together.

Go Inside the Episode:

0:00 – Intro

0:58 – Listener Question: Planning for Retirement with Separate Assets

4:34 – Approaches to Managing Finances in a Second Marriage

6:23 – Legacy Planning and Trusts in Second Marriages

8:55 – Role of Financial Professionals in Second Marriages

10:53 – Tax Efficiency

If you have any questions about what we discussed in this episode, reach out and we’ll be happy to set up a time to talk.

Get your copy of The Tax-Smart Retiree: https://www.thetaxsmartretireebook.com/welcome

You’ve worked hard for your money. We help make your money work hard for you.

Want help to plan your Tax-Smart Retirement™? Click below to schedule a call.

Yes, Let’s Talk

You are leaving the AFS Financial Group website and will be redirected to a third-party website. AFS Financial Group does not control or maintain that website and is not responsible for its content, availability, security, or privacy practices. The link does not constitute an endorsement of all information, products, or services offered on the third-party website. Please review the third party’s terms of use and privacy policy.